Avoid a New Relationship on the Rebound

After a relationship breakup, focus on growing You. Avoid the rebound at all costs!

The woman that you are at breakup is most likely the same woman you were when you attracted your former partner. Her personality is the one who contributed in creating your previous relationship.

Taking the same you into another relationship will most likely repeat history.

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Leave her (the old you) behind. Develop a new you to take into the next relationship if you want one. A new you will create a better and more confidence filled future for you.

Give yourself time to reflect on what went wrong. Figure out what you did to contribute to the break-up. If you are honest with yourself, you will find that you had a part to play in the relationship crumbling.

You are not 100% victim. You contributed some to the break-up.

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You want to afford yourself time to figure out how you can avoid a repeat of the old habits. As you know old habits die hard.

In future posts I will share with you what my personal challenge was that led to my single status. Hopefully you will get perspective on my introspection process so that you too can do your own.

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I look forward to staying connected with you.